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  • The Truth Still Counts

    My father had a fall in September 2025. And by December he was in hospice. He passed away on January 9, 2026. His funeral and celebration of life was this past weekend. It’s been a few days since my father’s celebration of life, and if I’m being honest, I’m still pissed. Time has a way…

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    She Died Fast – But Beautifully

    Preface Before my mom died, she made two very specific requests of me. One: don’t quit school.Two: stay with me until the end. And, toward…

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    Ambition Isn’t a Dirty Word

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    Button Pusher Blues : A Playfully Toxic Tale

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About Me

I’m Marissa – the author behind this blog. I write about my life – work, kids, cancer – all with a nugget of realism and a little twinge of hope. Enjoy!